Tears

Today was one of those days that we just hung around the house doing a whole lot of nothing. I felt like we haven't done this in such a long time, and were probably way over due! Tony has been doing an odd behavior that both Trokon and I can't quite figure out. This ONLY happens when i'm around Tony. If we ask him not to do something, or stop doing something or whatever it may be...saying no to the third cup of juice, not giving a cookie after he refused to eat supper he begins to just sob like he's getting into a lot of trouble. As a mother I feel guilty for him feeling like this. I feel as if he doesn't understand when I clearly know he knows what he's doing. Trokon, and other family members have told me that he doesn't act this way at all when i'm not around. He acts like an angel...like a whole different kid...listens, and does what he is asked to do. I know i've spoiled and continually spoiling him, but he's my son and thats what mothers do, right? Recently I've tried to stop my "spoiling" ways and tried to explain to him whats right and whats wrong....I feel as if this will be a long road of recovery...and the process begins.